Parenting is easier when shared

You say you want your partner to be an equal parent, but every time he tries you take the baby out of his hands, you criticize him and make him feel he cannot do anything right.

Well he is, how else will he feel when all of his effort is dismissed and criticized?

He’s desire to be an equal parent is admirable. However this situation requires compromise from the both of you if it’s going to work. It’s natural for some moms especially the stay at home moms to have problems letting others tend their babies, but you've got to let go a little and allow your partner to do parenting a times. And he needs to also be open to your feed backs as long as your feed backs are respectful and in the good of the baby.

What is ultimate is that you remember always that parenting is much easier when you support and not criticize one another